Class: Primary 6
Term: 2nd Term
Subject: National Values Education
Curriculum Theme: Social Studies
Previous Lesson:
Topic: Meaning of Healthy boy and Girl Relationship
Content/Learning Area: Meaning of Healthy Boy and Girl Relationship, examples of Boy-Girl Relationship, Characteristics of a Healthy Boy-Girl Relationship
Time Allocation: 40 minutes
Performance Objectives
By the end of the lesson, pupils should be able too:
- Cognitive Domain: Explain the meaning of a healthy boy and girl relationship.
- Affective Domain: appreciate the importance of respect in relationships.
- psychomotor Domain: Demonstrate how to communicate respectfully in boy-girl interactions.
- Social Domain: Identify appropriate ways boys and girls can relate in different social settings.
Reference Materials
The following resources were used in planning this lesson:
- 9 – Years Basic Education Curriculum
- Abuja Educational Resource Center Scheme of Work
- NAPPS National Unified Scheme of Work
- Online Facts from: Mental Health Foundation – Healthy relationships with ourselves and our peers – school pack
- Relevant Textbooks
Instructional Materials
To deliver this lesson, the teacher will use the following materials:
- Charts showing healthy boy-girl interactions
- Flashcards with different social scenarios
- Storybooks illustrating friendship and respect
- Audio recordings of appropriate conversations between boys and girls
Rationale for the Lesson
Understanding healthy boy and girl relationships helps pupils develop positive social skills. It teaches them respect, cooperation, and appropriate interaction, which are significant in friendships, school, and family life.
Prerequisite/Previous Knowledge
Pupils interact with their classmates daily and have friendships with boys and girls. They are familiar with the idea of teamwork and cooperation.
Lesson Content
Meaning of Healthy Boy and Girl Relationship
A healthy boy and girl relationship means that boys and girls interact with respect, kindness, and honesty. It involves being good friends, working together, and supporting one another without negative pressure.
Examples of Boy-Girl Relationships
Ther are many ways boys and girls can interact positively. These include:
- School group projects
- Playing sports together
- Being classmates and sharing ideas
- Participating in cultural and social events
- Helping one another in assignments
- Engaging in community service activities together
- Collaborating on creative projects like drama or art
Characteristics of a Healthy boy-Girl Relationship
A healthy relationship is defined by certain key qualities that promote well-being and positive interactions. These include:
- Respect – Treating each other with kindness
- Honesty – Being truthful in communication
- Teamwork – Working together to achieve common goals
- Boundaries – Understanding personal space and limits
- Encouragement – Supporting each other positively
- Empathy – showing understanding and care for each other’s feelings
- Trust – Believing in each other’s reliability and integrity
Teaching Methods
To deliver this lesson, the teacher will adopt the following methods: Discussion, Storytelling, Demonstration, Role-playing, Guided Discussion, Question and Answer.
Instructional Procedures
To deliver this lesson, the teacher will adopt the following steps:
Step 1: Introduction
Time: 5 mins
Teaching Skill: Set Induction
Teacher’s activity: Asks pupils to describe how they relate with classmates of the opposite gender.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils give responses based on their experiences.
Step 2: Explanation of Healthy Boy-Girl Relationship
Time: 7 mins
Teaching Skill: Explanation
Teacher’s activity: Tells a short story about a boy and girl who help each other in school.
Pupils’ Activity: Listen to the story and discuss its meaning.
step 3: Examples of Boy-Girl Relationships
Time: 6 mins
Teaching Skill: Demonstration
Teacher’s Activity: Shows a chart with different boy-girl interactions.
Pupils’ Activity: Identify and describe each interaction on the chart.
Step 4: Characteristics of a Healthy Boy-Girl Relationship
Time: 6 mins
Teaching Skill: Guided Discussion
Teacher’s Activity: Asks pupils to mention what makes a friendship good.
Pupils’ activity: Give responses,and the teacher expands on them.
Step 5: Note-Taking
Time: 5 mins
Teaching Skill: writing
Teacher’s Activity: Dictates the key points for pupils to write in their notes.
Pupils’ Activity: Copy the lesson content into their notebooks.
Step 6: Evaluation/Review
Time: 7 mins
Teaching Skill: oral Assessment
Teacher’s Activity: Asks pupils questions to check their understanding.
Pupils’ Activity: Answer questions and discuss their responses.
Objective-aligned checks:
- Explain the meaning of a healthy boy and girl relationship.
- Demonstrate how to communicate respectfully in boy-girl interactions.
- Identify appropriate ways boys and girls can relate in different social settings.
Step 7: Conclusion
time: 4 mins
Teaching Skill: Recap
Teacher’s Activity: Summarizes the lesson and encourages respectful relationships.
Pupils’ Activity: Listen and ask final questions.
Lesson Keywords
- Respect – Treating others with kindness and consideration.
- Honesty – Being truthful and sincere in communication.
- Teamwork – Working together to achieve common goals.
- Boundaries – Understanding and respecting personal limits.
- Encouragement – Providing positive support to others.
Lesson Evaluation
To evaluate the learning,the teacher asks pupils to:
- What is a healthy boy and girl relationship?
- Mention three examples of boy-girl relationships.
- List two characteristics of a healthy boy-girl relationship.
- Why is respect critically important in friendships?
- How can boys and girls work together positively in school?
Assignment/Homework
- Write a short paragraph about how you can show respect to your classmates.
- List three activities you can do with both boys and girls in your class.
- Describe a situation where teamwork helped you achieve a goal.
Differentiation
- For slower learners: Use visual aids and role-play scenarios to reinforce concepts.
- For advanced learners: Let them present short skits on healthy relationships.
- For visual/auditory/kinesthetic learners: Incorporate visual aids, audio recordings, and hands-on activities to cater to different learning styles.
Note for Teachers
Encourage open discussions so pupils feel pleasant sharing their experiences.Use real-life examples to make the lesson relatable.Reinforce positive behavior by praising good responses. Happy teaching!

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