Note for teachers using this lesson plan
Before the lesson, prepare clear charts or posters showing a nuclear family (father, mother, children) and gather some simple family pictures. The central idea for pupils is to understand that a family is a group of people living together, and a nuclear family specifically includes a father, mother, and their children. Successful learning will be observed when pupils can name these members and point them out in pictures or on the charts.
Class: Pre-School Level 3
Term: First Term
Week: 1
Age: 4 years
Duration: 30 minutes
Subject: Social Habits
Curriculum Theme: Social Habits
Previous Lesson: People Who Live With Me
Topic: MY FAMILY: MEANING AND MEMBERS OF THE NUCLEAR FAMILY
Subject Matter: My Family: Meaning and Members of the Nuclear Family.
Specific Objectives
By the end of the lesson, pupils should be able to:
Cognitive Domain
- Define “family” in simple terms.
- Identify the members of a nuclear family (father, mother, children).
- Name the members of a nuclear family.
Affective Domain
- Show appreciation for their own family members.
- Listen attentively to discussions about family.
Psychomotor Domain
- Point to pictures of father, mother, and children on a chart.
- Participate in singing a song about family members.
Social Domain
- Share who lives in their house when asked.
- Take turns to mention family members.
Reference Materials
- NAPPS National Unified Teaching Scheme for Pre-School Level 3
- Early Childhood Care and Education resources
- Relevant early-years workbooks on Social Habits
Instructional Materials
- Charts showing different family pictures (nuclear family).
- Posters illustrating a family tree.
- Picture cards of a father, mother, son, and daughter.
- A teacher’s own family photo or a generic family photo.
Rationale for the Lesson
Understanding the concept of family is fundamental for young children as it helps them develop a sense of identity, belonging, and social awareness. This lesson introduces pupils to the basic structure of a nuclear family, helping them recognise their immediate family members and their roles, which is crucial for their social and emotional development.Prerequisite/Previous Knowledge
Pupils can identify themselves by name and know some of the people who live with them at home. They can also recognise common objects and people in their immediate environment.Lesson Content/Board Summary
MY FAMILY: MEANING AND MEMBERS OF THE NUCLEAR FAMILY
A family is a group of people who live together, love each other, and help each other.
A nuclear family is a small family. It is made up of:
- Father (Daddy)
- Mother (Mummy)
- Children (Sons and Daughters)
In a nuclear family, the father, mother, and children live together in one house.
Key Words
- Family – People who live together and love each other.
- Nuclear Family – A small family with father, mother, and children.
- Father – Daddy, the male parent.
- Mother – Mummy, the female parent.
- Children – The sons and daughters in the family.
My Family Song
Tune: “Are You Sleeping, Brother John?”
Lyrics:
Father, Mother,
Father, Mother,
Children too,
Children too.
We are a family,
We are a family,
Yes, it’s true,
Yes, it’s true.
Actions: Point to self for “I”, point to different directions for “Father”, “Mother”, “Children”, hug self for “love”.
Watch and Learn About Family
💡 Teacher Guide for Using This Board Summary
How to teach the content: Start by asking pupils about who lives in their house. Introduce the word “family” and explain its simple meaning using familiar examples. Then, introduce “nuclear family” as a small family unit. Use the charts and picture cards to clearly show and name the father, mother, and children. Repeat their names several times, encouraging pupils to say them along with you.
What to show or demonstrate: Display charts/posters of a nuclear family. Point to each member (father, mother, son, daughter) and say their names clearly. Show pictures of different nuclear families to reinforce the concept. You can also use your own family photo (if appropriate) or a generic one to make it personal.
How to use the rhyme/song: Introduce the “My Family Song” after discussing the family members. Sing it slowly at first, demonstrating the actions. Encourage pupils to join in, pointing to themselves and then to imaginary family members. Repeat the song several times to help them memorise the lyrics and actions.
How to use the video: Introduce the video as a fun way to learn more about family. Play the video “My Family Song” by Super Simple Songs. After watching, ask pupils to name the family members they saw in the video and encourage them to sing along to parts they remember.
What to watch for: Observe if pupils can correctly identify and name the father, mother, and children on the charts. Listen for their participation in the song and their ability to point to the correct family member when asked.
Teaching Methods/Instructional Techniques
Play-based Learning, Demonstration, Guided Practice, Songs and Rhymes, Picture Talk, Question and Answer, Repetition, Manipulation of Objects.Instructional Procedures
Step 1: Introduction
Time: 3 minutes
Teaching Skill: Greeting/Engaging
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher greets the pupils warmly and leads them in a short “Good Morning” song. The teacher then asks, “Who lives with you at home?” and “Who takes care of you?”
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils respond to greetings and try to mention one or two people who live with them.
Learning Point: Pupils are engaged and begin thinking about people in their homes.
Step 2: Meaning of Family
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Explanation/Picture Talk
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher shows a picture of a happy family and explains in simple words, “A family is a group of people who live together, love each other, and help each other.” The teacher asks, “Do you love your family?”
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils look at the picture, listen to the explanation, and respond “Yes!” to loving their family.
Learning Point: Pupils understand the simple meaning of “family.”
Step 3: Introducing the Nuclear Family
Time: 6 minutes
Teaching Skill: Demonstration/Naming
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher introduces the term “nuclear family” and explains that it is a small family. The teacher displays charts showing a father, mother, and children, pointing to each member and clearly naming them: “This is the Father,” “This is the Mother,” “These are the Children.” The teacher asks pupils to repeat the names.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils observe the charts, listen, and repeat “Father,” “Mother,” “Children” after the teacher.
Learning Point: Pupils recognise and begin to name the members of a nuclear family.
Step 4: Reinforcing with a Song
Time: 4 minutes
Teaching Skill: Singing/Action
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher leads the pupils in singing the “My Family Song” (lyrics provided in Board Summary). The teacher demonstrates the actions and encourages pupils to join in.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils sing the song along with the teacher and perform the actions.
Learning Point: Pupils reinforce their knowledge of family members through song and movement.
Step 5: Identifying Family Members (Practical Activity)
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Guided Practice/Identification
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher holds up individual picture cards of a father, mother, son, and daughter. The teacher asks pupils, “Who is this?” and encourages them to point to the correct person on the chart or their own family photo (if brought). The teacher also asks a few pupils to mention who their father, mother, or siblings are.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils identify the family members on the cards/charts and some share who their family members are.
Learning Point: Pupils can identify and name individual family members.
Step 6: Video Reinforcement
Time: 3 minutes
Teaching Skill: Visual Learning/Discussion
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher introduces the video “My Family Song” and plays it for the pupils. After the video, the teacher asks pupils what they saw and who was in the family in the video.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils watch the video and respond to the teacher’s questions, naming family members they saw.
Learning Point: Pupils reinforce their understanding of family members through visual and auditory input.
Step 7: Evaluation/Review
Time: 4–5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Questioning/Assessment
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher checks pupils’ understanding through short questions and practical tasks.
- “What is a family?” (Encourage simple answers like “people who live together”).
- “Who are the people in a nuclear family?”
- (Pointing to a chart) “Who is this?” (Point to father, then mother, then children).
- “Can you point to the father in this picture?”
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils respond orally and demonstrate the required skill where appropriate.
Learning Point: Pupils demonstrate understanding of the lesson.
Step 8: Conclusion
Time: 2 minutes
Teaching Skill: Summarising/Encouragement
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher briefly summarises the lesson, reminding pupils that their family loves them and they should love their family too. The teacher praises pupils for their participation.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils listen and say “Thank you, teacher.”
Learning Point: Pupils leave with a positive feeling about their families and the lesson.
Lesson Keywords
- Family – People who live together and love each other.
- Nuclear Family – A small family with father, mother, and children.
- Father – Daddy.
- Mother – Mummy.
- Children – Sons and daughters.
Differentiation
- Support: For pupils who are struggling, the teacher can use larger, clearer pictures, provide more one-on-one repetition of names, or use hand gestures to prompt responses. They can focus on identifying just “father” and “mother” first.
- Extension: For pupils who grasp the concept quickly, the teacher can ask them to identify their own father, mother, or siblings by name, or ask them to describe one thing their father or mother does for the family.

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