Note for teachers using this lesson plan
Before the lesson, prepare a large chart or poster board for the class family tree, along with pictures or simple drawings of various extended family members (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins). Have crayons, markers, and glue ready. The central idea is for pupils to recognise and name their extended family members and understand that a family tree shows these relationships. Successful learning will be observed when pupils can mention names of their extended family members and participate in creating the class family tree.
Class: Pre-School Level 3
Term: First Term
Week: 2
Age: 4 years
Duration: 30 minutes
Subject: Social Habits
Curriculum Theme: Social Habits
Previous Lesson: My Immediate Family
Topic: MY EXTENDED FAMILY AND MAKING A FAMILY TREE
Subject Matter: My Extended Family and Making a Family Tree
Specific Objectives
By the end of the lesson, pupils should be able to:
Cognitive Domain
- Identify members of their extended family.
- Mention the names of some of their extended family members.
- State what a family tree is in simple terms.
Affective Domain
- Show appreciation for their extended family members.
- Enjoy talking about their family.
Psychomotor Domain
- Point to pictures of extended family members on a chart.
- Participate in making a simple class family tree.
Social Domain
- Share information about their extended family with peers.
Reference Materials
- NAPPS National Unified Teaching Scheme for Pre-School Level 3
- Relevant Early Childhood Care and Education resources
Instructional Materials
- Charts with pictures of extended family members (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins)
- Large poster board for the class family tree
- Pictures or simple drawings of family members
- Crayons, markers, glue
- Family photo albums (optional, for visual examples)
Rationale for the Lesson
Understanding the extended family helps children develop a sense of belonging and identity within a larger social structure beyond their immediate household. This lesson introduces them to the concept of relatives like grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, fostering social connections and an appreciation for family ties. It also lays a foundation for understanding community and cultural heritage.
Prerequisite/Previous Knowledge
Pupils can identify and name members of their immediate family (mother, father, brother, sister).
Lesson Content/Board Summary
My Extended Family and Making a Family Tree
Your extended family includes relatives who do not live in your house, like your grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
- Grandfather: Your mummy’s father or your daddy’s father.
- Grandmother: Your mummy’s mother or your daddy’s mother.
- Uncle: Your mummy’s brother or your daddy’s brother.
- Aunt: Your mummy’s sister or your daddy’s sister.
- Cousin: Your uncle’s child or your aunt’s child.
A family tree is a picture or chart that shows all the members of your family and how they are related to each other. It helps us see our family connections.
Key Words
- Extended family – All your relatives like grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
- Grandfather – Your parent’s father.
- Grandmother – Your parent’s mother.
- Uncle – Your parent’s brother.
- Aunt – Your parent’s sister.
- Cousin – Your aunt’s or uncle’s child.
- Family Tree – A chart showing family members and their relationships.
Extended Family Song
Tune: “The Wheels on the Bus”
My family is big and wide, big and wide, big and wide,
My family is big and wide, with lots of people inside!
Grandpa and Grandma, they are so dear, so dear, so dear,
Grandpa and Grandma, they are so dear, with stories for us to hear!
Uncle and Auntie, they come to visit, come to visit, come to visit,
Uncle and Auntie, they come to visit, with hugs and smiles they transmit!
My cousins play and laugh with me, laugh with me, laugh with me,
My cousins play and laugh with me, happy family, you see!
Actions:
- “Big and wide”: Spread arms wide.
- “Grandpa and Grandma”: Point upwards with both thumbs.
- “Stories for us to hear”: Cup hand to ear.
- “Uncle and Auntie”: Wave hands.
- “Hugs and smiles”: Hug self, then make a big smile.
- “Cousins play and laugh”: Mimic playing, then laugh.
Watch and Learn About Family
💡 Teacher Guide for Using This Board Summary
How to teach the content: Introduce the concept of “extended family” by first reviewing the immediate family. Use pictures or drawings to show each extended family member (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins) and explain their relationship to the child. Ask pupils to share if they have these relatives and mention their names. For the family tree, show a simple example on a chart and explain that it’s like a picture of the family.
What to show or demonstrate: Display clear pictures or drawings of a grandfather, grandmother, uncle, aunt, and cousin. Point to each picture as you name them and explain their role. Show a simple, pre-drawn family tree chart on a poster board, pointing out where different family members would go.
How to use the rhyme/song: Introduce the “Extended Family Song” after discussing the different members. Sing it slowly first, demonstrating the actions. Repeat the song several times, encouraging pupils to join in with the words and actions. This helps reinforce the vocabulary and makes learning fun.
How to use the video: Introduce the video as a fun way to see and hear about extended family members. Play the video once for pupils to watch. After watching, ask pupils to name some of the family members they saw or heard in the song. Encourage them to sing along if the video includes a song.
What to watch for: Observe if pupils can correctly identify and name the extended family members. Pay attention to their participation in the song and the family tree activity. Some pupils might find it challenging to distinguish between immediate and extended family initially; provide gentle correction and more examples.
Teaching Methods/Instructional Techniques
- Play-based Learning
- Demonstration
- Guided Practice
- Songs and Rhymes
- Picture Talk
- Question and Answer
- Role-play (simple, e.g., “be an auntie”)
- Practical Activity (making a family tree)
- Repetition
Instructional Procedures
Step 1: Introduction
Time: 3 minutes
Teaching Skill: Engaging/Recalling
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher greets the pupils and starts by asking them to name members of their immediate family (mummy, daddy, brother, sister). “Who is in your house with you?”
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils greet the teacher and name their immediate family members.
Learning Point: Pupils recall knowledge of their immediate family.
Step 2: Introducing Extended Family Members
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Explaining/Showing
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher introduces the concept of “extended family” and shows pictures of grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. The teacher explains who each person is (e.g., “This is a grandfather, he is your mummy’s or daddy’s father”).
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils look at the pictures, listen to the teacher’s explanation, and repeat the names of the extended family members.
Learning Point: Pupils begin to recognise and name extended family members.
Step 3: Discussion and Examples
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Questioning/Facilitating
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher asks pupils if they have a grandfather, grandmother, uncle, aunt, or cousin. “What is your grandmother’s name?” “Do you have an uncle?” The teacher encourages pupils to share their own examples.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils respond to the teacher’s questions, mentioning if they have these relatives and sharing their names if they know them.
Learning Point: Pupils connect the concept of extended family to their own lives.
Step 4: Rhyme/Song Reinforcement
Time: 4 minutes
Teaching Skill: Singing/Action Modelling
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher leads pupils in singing the “Extended Family Song” with actions. The teacher sings slowly first, then encourages pupils to join in.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils listen, sing along with the teacher, and perform the actions for the song.
Learning Point: Pupils reinforce their knowledge of extended family members through song and movement.
Step 5: Introducing the Family Tree
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Demonstrating/Explaining
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher displays a simple poster of a family tree and explains that it shows how everyone in a family is connected. The teacher points to different parts of the tree (e.g., “Here is Grandpa, and here is Mummy, his daughter”).
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils observe the family tree poster and listen to the teacher’s explanation.
Learning Point: Pupils understand that a family tree represents family relationships visually.
Step 6: Making a Class Family Tree
Time: 4 minutes
Teaching Skill: Guiding/Collaborating
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher guides pupils to create a simple class family tree on a large chart. The teacher might put up pictures of “Grandpa” and “Grandma” at the top, then “Mummy” and “Daddy” below, and then “Me” and “My Siblings.” Pupils can add their own names or drawings of their extended family members if appropriate.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils participate by pointing, suggesting names, or helping to place pictures/drawings on the class family tree chart.
Learning Point: Pupils actively engage in creating a visual representation of family connections.
Step 7: Evaluation/Review
Time: 4–5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Questioning/Assessment
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher checks pupils’ understanding through short questions and practical tasks.
- “Who is your mummy’s mother?” (Grandmother)
- “Point to the picture of an uncle on the chart.”
- “Can you name one of your cousins?”
- “What is a family tree?”
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils respond orally and demonstrate the required skill where appropriate.
Learning Point: Pupils demonstrate understanding of the lesson.
Step 8: Conclusion
Time: 1 minute
Teaching Skill: Summarising/Reinforcing
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher briefly summarises the lesson, reminding pupils about their extended family members and the family tree. The teacher leads pupils in singing the “Extended Family Song” one more time.
Pupils’ Activity: Pupils listen to the summary and sing the song.
Learning Point: Pupils consolidate their learning and leave with a positive feeling about family.
Lesson Keywords
- Extended family – All your relatives like grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
- Grandfather – Your parent’s father.
- Grandmother – Your parent’s mother.
- Uncle – Your parent’s brother.
- Aunt – Your parent’s sister.
- Cousin – Your aunt’s or uncle’s child.
- Family Tree – A chart showing family members and their relationships.
Differentiation
- Support: For pupils who find it difficult to recall names, provide more visual aids and use repetition. Encourage them to point to pictures rather than naming if speaking is challenging. Use simple “yes” or “no” questions.
- Extension: Encourage pupils who grasp the concept quickly to mention more names of their extended family members. They can also draw a simple picture of one of their extended family members to add to the class family tree.

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