Class: Junior Secondary School 3 (JSS3, JSS 3)
Term: 2nd Term
Week: 9
Age: 14 years
Duration: 45 minutes
Subject: National Values Education
Curriculum Theme: Social Studies
Previous Lesson: Managing and Resolving Conflicts
Topic: Attributes required for conflict resolution (Part 1)
Subject Matter: Mutual understanding, Respect for rule of law, Tolerance, Patience, Communication skills
Specific Objectives
By the end of the lesson, pupils should be able to:
- Cognitive Domain:
(a) Define the meaning of conflict resolution and its key attributes.
(b) Explain the importance of mutual understanding, tolerance, and respect for the rule of law in resolving conflicts. - Affective Domain:
(a) Demonstrate willingness to listen and understand others’ perspectives during conflicts.
(b) Show respect for rules and fairness in conflict situations. - Psychomotor Domain:
(a) Participate actively in role-plays demonstrating conflict resolution skills.
(b) Practice using effective communication strategies such as polite speech and calm gestures. - Social Domain:
(a) Collaborate with peers to solve simulated conflict scenarios.
(b) Encourage others to apply conflict resolution strategies in group activities.
Reference Materials
The following resources were used in planning this lesson:
- 9 Years Basic Education Curriculum
- Lagos State Unified Scheme of Work for Junior Secondary Schools
- Wikipedia – Conflict resolution
- Relevant textbooks on Civic Education and National Values
Instructional Materials
The teacher will teach this lesson with the aid of:
- Whiteboard and markers
- Chart showing steps of conflict resolution
- Short story or scenario on conflict
- Flashcards with key terms (mutual understanding, tolerance, patience, communication, respect)
- Role-play props (optional)
Rationale for the Lesson
This lesson equips pupils with practical skills to resolve conflicts peacefully, promoting harmony and understanding in schools and society.
Prerequisite/Previous Knowledge
Pupils are expected to have basic understanding of disagreements, cooperation, and the need for fairness in social interactions.
Lesson Content/Board Summary
Attributes required for conflict resolution
Mutual Understanding
Mutual understanding is the ability to see and appreciate the feelings, opinions, and perspectives of others during a conflict. It allows parties to address the root cause of disagreement instead of escalating it.
The following are attributes of mutual understanding:
- Listening attentively to others.
- Appreciating different viewpoints.
- Avoiding assumptions and judgments.
- Seeking common ground to resolve differences.
Respect for Rule of Law
Respect for the rule of law involves acknowledging established rules and procedures when resolving conflicts. It ensures fairness and prevents biased decisions.
These include:
- Following school and community rules during disagreements.
- Ensuring all parties have equal opportunity to express themselves.
- Avoiding taking the law into personal hands.
- Reporting serious conflicts to authorities when necessary.
Tolerance
Tolerance is the ability to accept and respect the differences of others, even when opinions or behaviors differ from one’s own.
They are important because:
- It reduces the chances of escalating conflicts.
- Encourages peaceful coexistence.
- Promotes understanding between conflicting parties.
- Helps maintain harmony in groups.
Patience
Patience is remaining calm and composed while addressing disagreements. It prevents impulsive reactions that could worsen the conflict.
Examples include:
- Taking time to think before responding.
- Waiting for others to finish speaking without interrupting.
- Controlling anger and frustration.
- Allowing conflicts to be resolved in a step-by-step manner.
Communication Skills
Effective communication involves clearly expressing thoughts, listening actively, and ensuring messages are understood correctly.
The following are key communication skills for conflict resolution:
- Speaking politely and respectfully.
- Using non-verbal cues like eye contact and calm gestures.
- Asking questions for clarity.
- Summarizing points to ensure mutual understanding.
Teaching Methods/Instructional Techniques
Discussion, Lecture, Storytelling, Explanation, Role-play, Visual Aids, Group Work
Instructional Procedures
To deliver this lesson, the teacher will adopt the following steps:
Step 1: Introduction
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Set Induction
Teacher’s Activity: Greet pupils and briefly review the previous lesson on conflict causes. Tell a short story about a disagreement in school and ask pupils what they think could have resolved it.
Pupils’ Activity: Listen, respond to questions, and share personal experiences of conflicts.
Learning Point: Establish the importance of resolving conflicts using positive attributes.
Step 2: Explaining Mutual Understanding
Time: 7 minutes
Teaching Skill: Explanation
Teacher’s Activity: Define mutual understanding and list its attributes on the board. Provide examples of listening and appreciating others’ viewpoints.
Pupils’ Activity: Copy notes and give examples from personal experience.
Learning Point: Pupils understand how mutual understanding prevents escalation of conflicts.
Step 3: Respect for Rule of Law
Time: 7 minutes
Teaching Skill: Lecture & Discussion
Teacher’s Activity: Explain the role of rules in conflict resolution and give school-based examples. Ask pupils why rules are necessary in resolving disputes.
Pupils’ Activity: Participate in discussion and provide examples.
Learning Point: Pupils learn the importance of fairness and adherence to rules.
Step 4: Tolerance and Patience
Time: 8 minutes
Teaching Skill: Storytelling & Role-play
Teacher’s Activity: Tell a story or present a scenario highlighting tolerance and patience. Ask pupils to act out parts demonstrating these attributes.
Pupils’ Activity: Engage in role-play and discussion.
Learning Point: Pupils develop appreciation for patience and tolerance in conflict resolution.
Step 5: Communication Skills
Time: 7 minutes
Teaching Skill: Demonstration & Explanation
Teacher’s Activity: Explain effective communication in conflicts and demonstrate polite speaking, active listening, and summarizing points.
Pupils’ Activity: Practice speaking and listening skills in pairs or groups.
Learning Point: Pupils acquire skills for clear and respectful communication.
Step 6: Note-Taking
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Guided Writing
Teacher’s Activity: Summarize key points on the board and guide pupils in taking structured notes.
Pupils’ Activity: Copy notes in organized form.
Learning Point: Reinforce understanding through written notes.
Step 7: Evaluation/Review
Time: 5 minutes
Teaching Skill: Questioning & Discussion
Teacher’s Activity: The teacher evaluates the learning by asking the following questions:
- Define mutual understanding.
- List two ways the rule of law helps in conflict resolution.
- Give an example of showing tolerance in school.
- Mention one communication skill that helps resolve conflicts.
Pupils’ Activity: Answer questions orally and in writing.
Learning Point: Assess comprehension of the lesson’s objectives.
Step 8: Conclusion
Time: 1–2 minutes
Teaching Skill: Summarization
Teacher’s Activity: Recap the lesson by highlighting key attributes for conflict resolution. Encourage pupils to apply these in school and at home.
Pupils’ Activity: Listen and ask clarification questions if needed.
Learning Point: Pupils understand how to apply conflict resolution attributes in daily life.
Lesson Keywords
- Mutual Understanding – appreciating others’ views
- Rule of Law – following established rules
- Tolerance – accepting differences
- Patience – staying calm and composed
- Communication Skills – effective speaking and listening
Differentiation
Provide additional guidance to pupils who struggle with social interactions through peer support and structured role-play activities.
Note for teachers using this lesson plan
Use real-life examples and school scenarios to make the lesson relatable. Encourage all pupils to participate in role-plays to reinforce understanding.

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